2021 the year of allowing God to work in my life

  I talk to God almost every single day and one of my main prayer request of recent has been for God to reveal to me why I am here. What is my purpose? What is my calling? It’s good to have things going for you, opportunities coming your way, doors opening, but it means nothing if God is not behind it. It means nothing if it’s not in Gods will for you. It’s not fully clear what Gods will for each individual is but what we do know is that God has a plan for us all and he wants us to prosper. He won’t leave us to figure it out on our own, he will direct us. What I’ve realised is that when it comes to God revealing things to us he shows it one step at a time. Therefore, we just have to keep praying to him, seeking him and letting him lead the way for us. Taking the days as they come and thanking him for it. I don’t want my successes or my achievements to be worthless. I want God to be behind and for everything that I choose to do, that is why I pray. Not long after that prayer request

If I’ve learnt anything about life, it’s you can’t let the actions of others affect you. Don’t let anyone affect your happiness, don’t let them steal your joy and don’t let them steal your peace. It can be easier said than done because it can hurt when you lose the people closest to you who you thought would be there for a lifetime. The ones you thought would never turn on you, turn on you. The ones you thought would never treat you unfairly, do exactly that.   People come and people go. The sooner you learn this the better. Sometimes I have to repeat this to myself . ‘’People come and people go, people come and people go, people come and go.’’ I have to remind myself this. Sometimes people are only in your life for a season then its time to move on. Even if that’s not what you want. You can’t control what others decide to do. You can only control yourself and how you decide to react and deal with it. And overtime I’ve noticed within myself; depending on the individual I can eithe